Gentlemen. If a woman tells you she has real feelings for you and that you're her ideal partner, do not only contact her at midnight, one, two or three in the morning after a night of intense drinking. Have a little more respect for her feelings because she is obviously invested. Relegating her to "booty call" status just makes her admission of emotion seem like an even worse decision than she initially thought. At least make the woman feel as if you still respect her as a friend, consider her feelings because guys, even an unemotional, logical, rational woman such as myself will still over analyze the hell out of a man's actions if I'm even slightly emotionally invested. This is because women are nuts. I'm on the lower end of the insanity spectrum but it's still there. Make sure the woman you're drunk dialing, knows what she is and is available for her agreed upon position in your life, as your late night drunk fuck.
On top of that, I live 9 hours away. Even if I wanted to push all my feelings aside to still get laid (because it was great sex) I CAN'T. So, in conclusion, if you want to remain friends with the woman, call at a decent hour, keep the conversation to neutral topics and stop drunk dialing, the friendship is still important and valued. Those calls create hope where there is obviously none and are confusing seeing as there is a huge distance issue.
Thank you,
Women Who Shouldn't Care But Do
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